The whole story
thanks for the offer to help me install a W3, but i'm in Chicago. Plus, I did this unbeknownst to my wife. and I don't think she'd take too kindly to me ripping apart the interior to fix what I should have probably not done in the first place (according to the saving for child's college fund plan).
Sadly, when the installer said it was the wrong sub, and I was trying to get home ASAP without the wife finding out, so I just accepted it.
LONG BACK STORY - READ AT YOUR OWN RISK
The wife "interest in my latest obsession" meter starts out at a mild "huh that's interesting" and quickly drops off to a "please don't even hint at mentioning that stupid thing again." I am also a new dad; a two-month old and our first. So the wife meter is skewed toward avoiding wasteful spending.
Here's the progression of events that resulted in this wrong sub install. This all started because I wanted to replace my dead cassette adapter for my ipod.
Stage 1: DIY Ipod Adapter
Wife Approval rating: Great, that's nice hun, she turns her attention back to watching True Blood
Bought an ipod adapter from an online retailer (think I paid $125) that I later found out doesn't accept refunds beyond 30 days (I found that out on day 30). It sat in the box for a while until I got around to seeing about installing it. I took a quick 15 minute assessment of the scope of work required to install it and decided that since I just got a Best Buy gift card for Christmas I'd just go there and pay them to do it for me. Had to sell the adapter on eBay and wound up with only one bid and sold it for $20.
Stage 2: Best Buy iSimple
Wife Approval rating: Um, I GUESS, but what was wrong with buying another cassette adapter?
When I got to best buy they said to install the DIY adapter they'd charge $125 or I could buy their iSimple at $175 installation included and I could return it if I didn't like it. Their adapter had more functionality with my ipod so I said yes. They installed it a couple days later. Got in the car and was instantly disappointed with the sound quality. It sounded like the ipod was on volume level 1 and the rest of the inputs were on level 25. Sure I could crank it up but then it sounded even worse and god forbid if I accidentally switched inputs!
Stage 3: Screw it, buy a whole new head unit
Wife Approval rating: You're pretty much on your own on this, I'm over it
Went back to Best Buy because I now had $190 credit into them and could exchange my iSimple for a new radio. I decided upon the JVC KW-XR810 dual-din CD receiver. It has everything I want at a good price. I had Best Buy install it a couple days later when it arrived. I was 90% happy with everything except two areas:
A) They didn't connect the dimmer wire so I couldn't use the auto dimming feature of the display
B) the bass was not as powerful as it seemed with the JBL unit when using surround sound mode
Stage 4: Do the JL Audio sub and amp swap
Wife Approval rating: Unknown, but definitely in the negative
Consulted with the dude. They had great reviews on Yelp.com. He seemed very knowledgeable. His shop was very professional. They fixed the dimmer wire issue, apparently the 4runner doesn't have one to connect to the radio and they had to do some splicing or something to make it work. Everything went great right up to that last 20 minutes before leaving when he casually mentioned I got a different sub than I wanted.
Stage 5: Dare I go any further?
Wife Approval rating: This thing started in mid-November, it's now almost February, I can't believe you are still dealing with this!!! Insert cold-shoulder technique for a minimum of 4 days
I have never crossed this stage before and I don't know if I have the stomach for it. The problem isn't dealing with the guy, I have no problems telling him he ripped me off and he needs to fix this situation. The problem I have is that I am going to be out the time and energy required to get the car to him (he's only open from 10am to 6pm) without my wife knowing. The only way that can happen is if I skip work again, and wander around for 5 hours while they strip the interior and put in the right sub. Ironically, I ordered the amp online and brought it to him because he couldn't beat the price I was quoting him. At the time I thought about buying the sub too, but I didn't want to raise anymore red flags on the home front with all these boxes being delivered (my wife is on maternity leave with our 2 month old).
Ultimately I don't know if further tinkering is even worth the time and energy I have to put into it. I have to keep the sub completely stealth and stock looking due to the wife meter. Would I hear enough of a difference to warrant the work?