3 MONTH UPDATE
So first off I finally got a hold of the area manager for the Pepboys store that caused all the headaches. He ended up sending me a letter worth $100 for products or service at Pepboys. Ended up using part of it on a Christmas present for my step father-in-law, and the leftover on some ratchet straps for my hitch cargo tray. In the future I will most likely use Pepboys to price match and then go to Discount Tire.
First thing I would say is I wish I went with 275's... they weren't necessary but from a purely visual perspective I think they would have given a better look without the headaches of 285's on a street vehicle that is limited to forest access roads and Chicagoland potholes and snow.
Overall happy with the purchase, we recently got about a foot of snow with more in the forecast and the 4Runner got the job done with multiple trips through unplowed roads. Never had a moment where it felt squirrely.