I have 20K on my 11 TR5 and I am pleased as punch. Yep, there's nose dive and it is particularly pronounced and alarming when undergoing an 'emergency' stop, but I have faith in the abs and Toyota engineering.
And I take pleasure in running my non-KDSS truck around curvy roads. I like the feel of it and am pleased with the handling. You just need to understand what's going on and become familiar with the dynamics before you start driving like Ivan Stewart.
I'm like others-- a highlander or a minivan would better meet the needs of my family. Hell, most of my driving is commuting, so even a weenie prius would be better for me. But, as others have noted, this truck is so bad, I had to have it. And everybody loves it, from wifey, to my 4 year old daughter, to my 6 year old daughter.
It's the nicest vehicle I've ever owned, and the best handling (except for my wife's 05 mazda 6 wagon). But that is a ingnomious list: 79 buick estate wagon, 83 renault alliance, 76 AMC pacer, 76 Jeep DJ-5a (postal), 88 subaru GL wagon (mmm, maybe it handled better), 88 pathfinder, 02 Dodge 1500 reg cab 4x4 5.9, and my toy 83 jeep cj-7.
I've always admired the 4runner, (but not the 4th gen so much) and when this 5th gen came around, I simply had to have it. I was sold before driving it. So everything else is gravy. If you are looking for practical and sensible, there are magazines, websites, and vehicles for you out there. I wanted something that looked like a truck, drove like a truck, and gets used like a truck.
I'm glad turbolump got what he was looking for. But I wouldn't be caught dead in that goofy lexus pod. (No offense to owners of any of the vehicles I have demeaned).
Thanks for the thread guys--I needed a break form work today.