Short of it (as previously stated), if you can afford it, then get what you want. If you are budgeting, then get what makes sense. Some will tell you no, some will tell you yes, some will tell you there are plenty of other better family hauler options than a T4R.
I'm on TR4 #3... Family hauled in last two (one 2011 Limited, and current 2014 TEP w/ KDSS).
I absolutely love my TEP with Softex for kid hauling. I hardly do any off-road (I'm a pavement princess)... So the TEP was huge overkill. But it was the only version that had the options I wanted at the time, and money wasn't really an issue... So I bought what I wanted. The Softex really doesn't compare to true leather... But I could care less. ZERO issues with it and virtually zero wear marks anywhere to be found after daily usage.
KDSS is great for pavement queens... But I also have a small lift that stiffened things up; and wheel stance changed the steering geometry as well. So take it with a grain of salt.
All just my opinion... And it smells, just like everyone else's does... [emoji52]
2014 TEP w/ KDSS / Bilstein 5100s (front at 1.75) / Cornfed 1 inch rear spacers / 265/70 Nitto TG G2s / Spidertrax 1.25 / RCI Front skid / Yakima Cross bars / NFab Steps
We currently have a '10 FJ cruiser lifted, a '16 T4R Trail premium, and a '94 RX7 that used to be my track car, and an 18 month old little girl.
Obviously the RX7 is out for any kind of child carrier of any kind ever...
The FJ is a royal PITA to get her in and out of. We have a Diono child seat which is pretty tall and takes up more room in the rear especially when rear facing. I have to put it between the two front seats in order for the passenger to have any leg room at all. It SUCKS trying to hold her and place her gently into the middle of the rear seat fighting the rear suicide 1/2 door and angle of entry. I take her to daycare every morning in my truck. I WAS going to sell the thing and either take over the 4Runner and get the wife another Outback (We loved! More on this later) or get an older landcruiser. Just read that the FJs are increasing in value and may become quite valuable in the future. I'd hate to sell ANOTHER vehicle that is going to be something cool down the road. :hurt:
The 4Runner has been awesome so far. Getting kiddo in and out is 100X easier than in the FJ just because the door opens forward so you have the contour of a real door and you have about 6-8 more inches of space. The truck is also long enough that we have mounted the seat behind the passenger seat of the truck and it still has enough room to at least be comfortable although it's not all the way back. I think life is going to be easier when we can turn the seat forward.
The 4Runner was a long time coming. The wife drove and Sr5 a couple years ago and she really didn't like it. It wallowed and felt too spongy. As much as I wanted the 4Runner at the time as well, we had just driven a Highlander and the Outback and it did feel slow and swayed around. So we ended up on the Outback pre-baby era. Wife decided a few years after (post-baby era now) that she wanted something taller and bigger. We looked at a few things including the new Tahoes $$$ then decided to look at the 4Runner again. This time around she thought it was fine. Slow, but it drove much better. Difference being the KDDS on the Trail we test drove. We went home with it that night.
Now-then... If you are looking for a good al around people carrier that isn't a minivan, I'd say PLEASE look at a 3.6R Outback. They have a real 4wheel drive system in the 3.6R, no low range but it doesn't sound like that's what you're going for. It got really good mileage for its size and had plenty of power on the freeway and up hills. Very smooth and nothing ever went wrong with it. It actually felt easier to get baby in and out of the back of it too. One thing that we found out real fast that was a pain in the ass is that the 4Runner rear door is nearly vertical so it will not open up in our garage without hitting the garage door, and that huge spoiler is also a pain when you flip it up if you happen to have a Yakima Skybox on the top...Like some people.... And the factory rails suck ass so you'll have to buy aftermarket rails. The Outback was super easy to pop in up on top of and take off as it is also about a foot+ lower at the roofline. You can also access the stuff inside. I mention this because as I found out traveling with a child you don't just take a car seat and extra food, you end up taking about 50 billion support items and accessories and NOTHING fits well together, so we wound up slapping that cargo box up on the car all the time. In case you're thinking the 4Runner has enough room.... It has "more" room, but you can see my rather angrily written post on the factory roof rails because I was trying to but the cargo box up on the 4Runner to go camping with kiddo.
Personally I like the 4Runner. I've always had trucks. If you end up on this truck get the KDDS, you'll love it. IF you don't need a real 4X4 or don't have a special place in your heart for a 4Runner that you are willing to give up some comfort for, and don't want a mini van, I'd say look at the Outback. It's FAR superior as an every day car and does everything you'll need as well or better than the 4Runner (way... WAY better in slow too) unless you really need the 4X4 abilities of the T4R.
really appreciate you taking the time for that reply. that's a lot to think about
I'd sort of ruled out Subarus because mine constantly needs some suspension part replaced, that damn heat shield constantly wants to rattle and I had to have my head gaskets replaced. If I hadn't purchased the extended warranty, it would've been a real bummer.
That's odd. We never had a single thing go wrong with the Outback, but we only had it for three years and bought it brand new. Is yours an older one?
I honestly feel that Toyota has slipped on their fit and finish in particular in their trucks. The Outback felt much more solid and actually more comfortable. It felt almost German in it's construction where things solid.
We changed the rear sway bar to the thicker one that everybody recommended on the forums too which significantly decreased body roll and increased handling crispness. It also kept it from experiencing the dreaded death sway in cross winds.
Softex is awesome for repelling baby mess. Which absolutly will happen regardless of safety measures. When you're tired and want to go home and your child is throwing a fit because she wants Cheerios in the car... Sometimes you give her cheerios.... And they are always covered in crumbs of some kind. I'll hose my kiddo down and swear she's clean and she still drops stuff all over..
Also Mybabydaddy, do you have a picture of your rig? Your lift is about exactly what I'm trying to do with the wife's truck. She doesn't want a big lift, or any lift really, but I'd like to raise the nose up a little and even it out. I have the Spydertax 1.25 spacers on outs as well already.
Mine is a 2008. Head gaskets went at 80k miles. My co-worker just had the same thing happen to her later model Outback (apparently the problem was solved in 2008....but it doesn't appear to be the case).
Just checked out the 3.6R's...pretty close to the price of a TEP KDSS!
my experience has scared me away from Subaru, at least for this go-round.
I need to do some new pics... but let me dig around. I dropped the Spidertrax for some F/N Countersteer Type Xs...not that doing so has jack to do with my lift (height). I too cannot STAND the factory rake/squatty nose/nose-dive. I traded the softer ride for my current set-up, but it’s starting to get more and more unnoticeable these days. I’d still do it over again anyhow... Heck I’d do it just to eliminate the nose-dive part. However, I started on this (small) endeavor with the same exact goal as you.... just fix the rake a little. If you all can live with the nose-dive, I (personally) would throw in some small spacers up front and call it a day. IF you want to (or don’t mind as a result) stiffen the ride up a bit, replace all four corners with Bilstein 5100s and set the fronts to .85. Thus, you don’t really “lift” anything except the front just over an inch. She wouldn’t even notice the difference in height (but she’ll dang sure notice the harsher ride I would guess).
You're flirting with minivan territory my friend.
You're flirting with minivan territory my friend.