The Bond with your Vehicle

Fl.fisherman

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The bond between a man and his vehicle can be a very powerful thing sometimes. I got this truck the day i turned 16 on March 1st 2015. I had wanted a 1st generation 4runner since i was almost 8 years old and there i was, 16 and buying my very first vehicle, I find a 1986 4runner 4x4 in almost Pristine condition. Shes 29 years old and im 16 getting my 1st right of passage to manhood. The day i get her home and after doing a little exploring through her crowded glove box i come to find she was even sold from the local Toyota dealership 29 years ago. And after looking at the manufacturers plate inside the door i discover she even has the same birthday as me.

This truck gave me my true first taste of freedom. I took her to the beach at least once if not twice a week during the summer. I entered her in a car show and with pride stood infront of her to explain to anyone who would listen how perfect she was. I joined t4r and met all of you wonderful helpful people and showed my vehicle off with pride. This truck became a very big part of my life and with every compliment i got on her and every spontaneous day trip out to the ocean with all the windows rolled down it grew to become a bigger and bigger factor in my life.

Sure, driving a 30 year old vehicle has its drawbacks. No A/C in a vehicle in Florida seems like a crazy concept to those who drive modern vehicles. And thats probably well justified considering the fact you have to be just a little crazy about a car to deal with that every day. It didnt phase me any because it was my dream truck, and it was MINE. I wouldve gone to the ends of the earth to make that truck work for me. A new timing chain, followed by a blown head gasket, followed by the unwelcome noise of piston slap, and then countless hours of detailing and meticulous driving proved it.

I turned 17 on March 1st and the first thing i did was take the day off and drive to the DMV. Inside i proudly told the clerk id like to renew my registration and id like to register my truck as an antique. I drove out of that parking lot, head held higher than ever before and took the day to just drive what i affectionately called my child at that point.

Not any more than a few days afterwords i managed to land my first job interview. And it drove me to the next major milestone in my life without a hitch. And after i landed the job and woke up LATE for my orientation it took the abuse i gave it to get me there just in the niche of time. (Right after i got out of that orientation i drove her straight to the ocala forest and went camping. No issues of course).

This truck means more to me than anything ive ever owned before in my entire life. And tonight as it drove me to my job, which i already have been promoted in, she gothit hard in the front. A woman who had been in an argument with her boyfriend sped around a blind corner in the lot and slammed into my truck. This angry woman robbed me of all the countless effort i have sunk into keeping this truck nice and i cried. And it was as those tears rolled down my face as i took in the sight of my dream vehicle smashed and warped that i realized JUST how much i care for this vehicle.

Its not just the quarks and uniqueness of this vehicle that makes me love it so much as i originally thought, Like the hula girl i found wedged under the driver seat as i changed the carpet, or all the countless receipts and old documents that have collected in the glove box over 30 years, or even just the fact that most people who compliment me on my truck have no idea what it actually is, its actually how much me and this truck have been through together that makes me love it so much.

So as i sit here tonight writing this to you guys soggy eyed and broken hearted i await the news of whether or not my insurance company is going to total my baby. While it is technically an antique and a semi rare vehicle no one will ever understand just how valuable this vehicle is except for me, because no one will ever share the experiences me and her have.

As you browse the forum tonight consider just how much your vehicle means to you. I learned tonight it goes a lot deeper than I could have ever imagined. -Tanner, the current but possibly not future 1st gen 4runner owner
 

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If I where you I would fix her myself. I wouldn't have wasted my time with the insurance they just in it for the money, if they say they would fix they probably will want a cheap shop to fix it or not want to pay for everything and if it's total they will take her away and give you couple of pennies for it. Like I said fix her up yourself really doesn't look that. You fixing her up would create an even bigger bond trust me. If it still run and drive then she definitely worth fixing. Good luck!!
 
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Sorry your baby got into an accident.
- insurance will want to total it & apraise it at a low value
- you got some serious negotiating to do / could work in your favor
It's not that bad, that a good shop can't fix.
Take a fair cash settlement and but it back, without going thru Carfax.
- never sign over the ownership

My brothers mint Jeep TX was totaled once & second time hit by a deer.
- he had it fixed, through his contacts and profited $5,000 overall
- and avoid storage fees adding up / if hit, take vehicle straight home, than call insurance
 
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Sorry your baby got into an accident.
- insurance will want to total it & apraise it at a low value
- you got some serious negotiating to do / could work in your favor
It's not that bad, that a good shop can't fix.
Take a fair cash settlement and but it back, without going thru Carfax.
- never sign over the ownership

My brothers mint Jeep TX was totaled once & second time hit by a deer.
- he had it fixed, through his contacts and profited $5,000 overall
- and avoid storage fees adding up / if hit, take vehicle straight home, than call insurance

Still awaiting news now. Luckily she was drivable and i managed to get her home
 
Have you seen how much of a beating these rigs can take? It looks horrible now, I know the feeling of it first hand. A little time and love you can bring her back to her glory days.
27 years ago I was 21 and got my dream car from a little ol' grandma that lost her license. A almost perfect 1975 Chevy Monza with a stock 5.0 Towne Coupe. 3 years of me driving her and not one problem, it might have been the fact that she only drove it to the store and church one time a week and she had 42k original miles on her with every routine service record in a file I was given. Well this all changed December 25th 1992. My Wife and I went to her parents for xmas dinner and when it was time to leave what I thought had happened was a monster truck had drove over the trunk from the middle to the back window on the drivers side. I didn't hear anything. She was totaled the drivers rear axel and wheel were across the street even. A drunk in a semi truck ran her over. I spent the next 3 years finding parts,donor cars, fixing things because these cars were only built 5 years and the 75' was basically a 1 year only car, the first of the Monza's. On April 22 95' I got a call the Sat morning from the body shop telling me she was painted up and ready. My wife 9 months pregnant at the time told me she wasn't going to be popping out anytime soon told me to go get her. I grabed my neighbor and we went down to check her out. she was prefect again. Just missing the Bumpers, chrome and her stock 10 hole aluminum wheels. I drove her again, it was so awesome, almost like I had reunited with an old lost friend, hard to explain. I got home and showed my wife and quickly started gathering and installing all the chrome and badges I had collected. didn't run into one problem I worked into the night I was just to excited to sleep, I wish I had. Got about 3 hours sleep and got back to it again. about 4-5 pm I was done. I kept looking at the wheels and really wanted the stock wheels back on but it was Sunday and the tire shop was closed to swap tires. My always calm wife came out and asked if we could go for a ride in her.. of course.... Then her smile hit with some pain and said to the hospital? It was the best feeling in the world and 9 hours later Chelsea was born, it was agreed if it was a boy I would name it and a girl she would. My Monza's name is Chelsea, I named her after the Little ol lady I got her from. 2nd hardest day but happy just the same was April 24 2012 on Chelsea's 17th. I passed My pride and joy to my pride and joy.

So yeah.. "The bond between a man and his vehicle can be a very powerful thing sometimes."

Keep at it and don't loose faith in her. I just wish I was a photo taking kinda person so i could show what it took, it wasn't hard I think it wasn't hard because I loved her.
 
I had a 99 Toyota Camry. It was a sweet little vehicle with few hiccups. It was a straight shooter til the transmission blew when I was going 50 down the highway.

I cut my losses, sold the vehicle, and bought myself a project 4runner. That's why I'm here today. This vehicle needs a bit of work, but I know that crossing parts off that to do list is going to feel so good. It's going to give me solid knowledge that I'll keep forever (or until I go senile)
 
:cry2: I would do the same thing as you...

I have faith in you that you'll have her back together looking new again
 
The fender is OK! All the cheap stuff broke - you are in the clear!

Sadly that fron part if the fender is flattened out and under the hood, the cross member when the radiator and grill and everything mount up is canted now. The decision on what to do should be made tomorrow
 
I will say it again that is an extremely easy fix.

I fixed this myself for $250 on rockauto last year:

Before:
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Half way there:
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This is the same fender, same everything - so you can definately fix the fender on your truck because mine was mangled.

After (1.5 years after, cant find original after pic):
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Agreed, don't bother with the insurance company, do NOT let them total it.

Mine was much much worse than yours, my entire headlight opening was crushed in. A tree, a come along, hand tools and patience. Parts too of course.

I did a shit backyard job, i just bend the fender and the support cross section that houses the headlights etc all back into place... - but someone with even mediocre skill can fix your front end no problem, especially if they go as far as replacing the fender, but some people could bend your fender and and you would never know. The bumper, valance, grille all need replacing. They are cheap.

There is no major damage on your 4runner - I can tell - just breakaway shit broken.

Do the math - my 4Runner only has ONE original corner left! Haha. Fix it, these things are toys - they are still appreciated well broken in!
 
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You do not have to accept the first offer your insurance makes. We keep a $1000 deductible on all our cars so if there was no injury involved I would not have bothered to report that accident. My son at 16 only costs $76/month to insure so a higher deductible pays back IMO. The good news is that all the parts affected in your accident are available after market. Even the radiator support can be purchased new. Get on eBay and look at the prices. I doubt you need more than $500 for all new parts and much less for used. You should be able to fix it with out involving any welding or special skills.

If you decide it's totaled, which IMO is silly, get on eBay, look for "completed listings" and print some results for sold 4Runners that are similar in condition to yours. Good luck. Do not accept the first insurance offer.

edit: Just actually read the detail the accident wasn't your fault. Since it was her fault it's good you reported it. Again you do not have to accept their offer until you are satisfied you will be made whole. I would get the repair cost and take the cash and do it yourself. You should be dealing with her insurance and you did not have to notify yours.
 
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I probably would of cried and had to hold my anger back in a major way
I love every car i own so i can only imagine
Fix that thing up and get it back on the road
You can do it . Its not that bad
Goodluck and cant wait to see her put back together
 
Little update for all of yall here, the 4runner still runs and drives and gets me where i need to go. I meet with an adjustor soon to see how much theyll give me to repair her her instead of going to their body shop. But for now shes still kicking and getting me where i need to go
 
That's nothing. My 89 was the first truck I bought. I love it. I beat the hell out of it on the trails and daily drove it for years. I learned how to work on cars (which I now do professionally) on that truck. I always planned on driving it forever. Got about 300k now and always ran like a top. One morning on my way to work last summer I ****ed up and crashed it bad. Wanted to bring it back to life, tried hooking up a chain to the smashed in parts and slam it in reverse to bend em back a few times but didn't really work. Eventually sawzalled off the whole front clip and welded on another from the junkyard. Now it's in the middle of a solid axle swap, gears lockers etc to become a crawler. If mine could be resurrected yours should have no problem at all.
 

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