OP - I am on the other side of the country - sorry, but I can't help you do the job. If I could, I would be glad to help.
If you don't feel confident doing a very involved (but not terribly complicated) job, you would be wise to wait until you can get some help, or just take it to a mechanic. There is a large amount of wrenching involved, and several things can really mess you up, if you don't know what to look for, or don't see a minor mistake and correct it.
I did mine several months ago. Prior to that, I had done at least 10 other timing belt jobs over the years. Some were far easier than this, some were trickier, but the T4R was the most involved timing belt job I have ever done. If I hadn't made 2 minor mistakes with major consequences, the job would have taken me 10-12 hours, and I have a very complete set of tools. Because those 2 things went wrong, the job took me over 100 hours. Much of that extra time was figuring out exactly what went wrong, then going back and reworking things. Essentially, I had to do the job twice, with a bunch of time spent studying things and asking questions here, trying to figure out exactly what went wrong. Those 2 things were a camshaft seal that got rolled on the bottom side, which I did not see, and a valve cover that I cracked because I wasn't careful enough re-installing it. Those 2 mistakes cause a major snowball effect with end results of a massive oil leak and my engine smoking heavily after the job. However, it has been running like a sewing machine again, after those 100 or so hours I spent on it.
The timing belt itself is the easy part. The many, many things you have to remove, and other related work that needs to be done when you have it all apart adds greatly to the amount of work involved. Things like the water pump, camshaft and crank seals, half moon plugs, and the list goes on and on.
I hate sounding like I am trying to scare you, as much of the job is not very difficult, but overall, it is pretty complicated and involved. Also, if I hadn't previously made a crankshaft holding tool myself to use on another vehicle, I would have had to either make one for this, or buy one. In my case, this timing belt job would have been impossible without that one tool.
I had the help of several writeups for the job from this and other forums. You would need those, as well as a shop manual, if you were trying to figure it out yourself. Youtube all by itself would not get you through the job.