Oh man... what I did..
since I've been so sporadic on this forum, I'll just clump all my recent 'crossed off the check list' "To Do's"
it started off beautifully with new headlights, picked up some HID Xenon CCFL halo ring projector eyes glossy black in 6k white
The d**khead who had my 4Runner before me cut and spliced all of the factory wiring so figuring out how to wire these up was painful it took me longer than it should have
D**KHEAD!!!
So I ended up wiring them backwards

my low beams trigger nothing and my high beams trigger my low beams! I don't have enough patience to correctly fix that, so high low beams it is
Cleaned up all the wiring and they look good im satisfied with it
You should see them shining down the road, pictures don't do justice, it looks like I have my light bar on 24/7 [emoji39]
All in all Twas a great investment, I recommend if anyone is boarding that boat
Oh, and giving the black pearl (her name, I came up with that so I own that title) a deep 2-day cleaning.
3 Ws-wash, wax, wheels + full interior. she loves it
More exciting things to come, I really should just start a build thread .__.