As others have said, definitely 700 pounds springs are way too high, even with a winch and bumper. My F250 has front springs in the neighborhood of 1250 lbs/in and rears nearly double that. I know what a stiff/jarring ride feels like.
I'm running the Toytech/Eibach 620# springs on the front with Bilstein 5100. When I had no extra weight on the front it rode OK, but once I added a winch, and then bumper, it rides fantastic.
Out back I have OME 891, again with Bilstein 5100, I believe from a later 4R/FJ. They are custom for the 3rd gen from Wheelers offroad. I also added a heavy 1/4" plate bumper, with swing out, a full size spare (33"), and cargo drawers. This necessitated the addition of air bags.
At no point, even when bone stock weight, was the ride jarring or bad. In fact, I think the rear end still felt too soft with no weight and 891s. I have load range D tires (285/70R17) and they are kept at 45 PSI, so if I someone was going to have a rough ride due to tires, it would be me.
What I'm getting at is there are possibly 2 things going on here, and I don't mean to insult your intelligence.
One, your expectations or interpretation of what a harsh ride is may not be the same as everyone else's. At the end of the day, these trucks are nearing 25 year old design tech. Also, add wear and tear to bushings and other things can add to NVH. Check out your suspension bushings, if you haven't already.
Two, you are continuing to use too heavy rating of suspension components. 700 pound springs are way too high. Period. It's also likely that since you moved between several coils and kept basically the same shocks, your shocks ARE NOT valved correctly. If they are too harsh for you, reduce your bump damping, by quite a bit.
Again, I know Bilstein's are not KING shocks, but I have no complaints whatsoever with mine, other than that the rear shocks may be a little too soft, but heavier spring (air lift 1000 bags) made up for that.
Good luck on your search.