Since you're set on a 4runner, keep looking around at the forums and see if you can find a 4runner mostly built already.
Here is one for sale for 10 k that has a lot of what you want already done (and is nicely done as well):
1999 4Runner Limited 4WD Elocker - TTORA Forum
It might be a bit of a pain to import it from the southern US, but you would be getting a rust free truck and you'd still be saving money compared to doing the mods yourself.
Here is one for sale for 10 k that has a lot of what you want already done (and is nicely done as well):
1999 4Runner Limited 4WD Elocker - TTORA Forum
It might be a bit of a pain to import it from the southern US, but you would be getting a rust free truck and you'd still be saving money compared to doing the mods yourself.