well, all i can say is, you ve read what the guys had to say about the lifts & such, now, your the only one that can make the decision. that mech. may just be someone who doesnt believe in any mods what so ever,, in my opinion , a small spacer lift is nothing to worry about, & wheel spacers are better than they were years ago, but you can forget those if your worried about safety, & get new wheels instead. goodluck
No I dont believe thats the case because this shop is a L.I. premier 4x4 mod shop that has been in business for 24+ years and it was the owner that I was speaking to. He takes out more leveling kits then he installs because people dont realize that the suspension is set up from the factory like it is for a reason. He did say I could be lucky and have nothing at all happen, but wouldnt chance it to have bigger problems later. He is not short of business by any stretch and has many, many toyotas under his belt. I commend him for his honesty b/c he was just "warning" me of what could and probably happen and left the decision up to me. I still want it but not 100 now, I have that doubt now.