I'm sorry to hear that.
The numbers that you are being quoted seem pretty ridiculous though. You can buy an entire 2004 1GR-FE engine, completely rebuilt, on eBay for less than $2500 shipped (from a seller with good feedback). You can buy a used head from car-part.com (it's a website that acts as a network for salvage yards nationwide) for $150 to $200.
Thanx. I'm not going to run all of this by my girlfriend, but after taking this morning to dig deeper into this engine thing, I can't believe these prices I'm hearing from 3 shop around here! I'm now thinking of getting heads from car-part and getting a "good ol' boy" to replace the heads. Just gotta see if I really have the time to deal with it. It's her truck, she's been texting me all morning about how much she loves her new-to-her 2011 truck. So who wants to break that up?:biggrin1:
Thanx for the food-for-thought, though. Take care...