Talk about good timing. I did this yesterday.
Removing the existing mirror is a piece of cake. Use a flat blade like a knife or broad screwdriver and pop off the plastic covering. Just work slowly along all four sides and the cover will eventually pop right off.
Once the cover is off, you'll see a plastic tab protruding out of the bottom of the part that is still attached to the glass. With your fingers, you pull that tab away from the glass and it releases the mirror from the bracket. Now just slide it up off the bracket.
The Gentex mirror slides down on the bracket and is secured with a torx screw rather than a tab. Don't overtighten the torx screw.
Which Gentex mirror did you get? I got the one with Homelink and compass, used off eBay and I'm thinking there's something missing. I'm thinking the "eye" for the autodimming should have some sort of plastic lens on it. On my mirror, there is no lens and you can see right through the hole at the sensor and mini-circuit board. Can you tell me if yours is like that?
Thanks,
Henry