Thanks for hearing my rant, guys! I appreciate the suggestions too.
I think I found it. At long last. A recycling yard in NC has a 2000 limited model t-case and it looks great. And most importantly, it has the actuator motor on it!
I agree that this biz isn't for communication pros, but if you are going to advertise on a nationwide online automotive part search engine, and request on your web site that people call or email, I expect at least a basic level of communication competency. It's a lot to ask, I know. Where I work, I can't be making calls during work hours, so email was crucial. Most yard hours are during my work hours. Walking in would have worked, but I don't have a yard anywhere close to me with inventory, not to mention they work the same hours I do...
Anyway, hopefully the deal with the NC yard goes through, and I'll have a new project to get done soon!