Well latest update is the eBay head I bought is cracked.. So I guess Ill be having it towed back to my house and either attempt to repair it or sell it for whatever I can get I guess.
Ive done engine work on motorcycles before but I tend to be really bad when it comes to trying to drill and tap. I dont have the patience to go slow enough and mess things up..
It will definitely be worth attempting to repair myself though I think but I have no idea which of those kits I would need?
please try and take your time, and save that 4runner of yours.
It really isn't that hard of a job, just need to take your time, as you claim you have difficulty doing. But good news is, you'll just need to take it slow and steady for the time you drill the hole, and the time you tap the hole, and luckily, these are pretty quick to do.
I have not watched MTbtim video and it is for sure much more quality content that I can give by writing in here, but for drilling aluminium, you'll need higher RPM, so don't use a slow 500 RPM drill/setting. You'll need to insure straight drilling, which you could pretty much achieve using another person's point of view, which will be located 90 degree from you. Both of you need to agree you are straight.
Also, you have to find a way to remove the chips that will get into the cylinder, which you could achieve using some automotive small vaccuum hose taped to a shop-vac's cleaning end.
I don't think an helicoil could work, as there is a ''back end'' rod in an helicoil which you use to thread the helicoil in, that will prevent your spark plug from going through (at least the helicoils I have used).
There spark plug thread repair kits available, for example (didn't look at it, it is just for the sake of pointing that it exists)
amazon thread repair kit.
As for forum activity, here there is still much more quality content compared many other modern truck forums. There is the fact that pretty much every question and problem is already answered over the years, so many opt for reading an old thread instead of creating a new one.
wish you luck.