Check for an unused factory plug behind dash panel where the other factory switches are, it may be bundled with them. If not, you can tie into anyone of the other switches that illuminate when you turn your lights on.
Prior to making any connections, always test with a multimeter, failure to do so could damage your vehicles electrical system!!! On my 2012, factory green wire (+) will go to 12 volts when you turn your headlight switch on to parking lights or headlights. Factory gray wire is ground (-), this is what controls the dimmer function. Not sure if they changed colors for 2014, but testing will confirm one way or another.
Also, it whatever you are controlling with your AOB switches draws more than 3 amps you must use a relay or you'll burn out the switch.
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