I disagree because you just don't see that many people who actually offroad/overland with a trailer. I've led groups of 15 or so on trips and might have one other person with a trailer. Trailers have gone way up in popularity since I started in 2010 but when offroading I don't see 10 or 20 trailers on a trip, I see maybe two or three. I also see lots of people who buy them and soon sell them off due to low use, but not so many that have been towing the same one as long as I have.
A) I do see a lot of people towing trailers now for overlanding purposes. In fact, you yourself tow a trailer and even seem to acknowledge that it has become a growing trend. Moroever a lot of non-overlanders still use their 4runner for towing utility and boat trailers...people tend to use their 4runners.
B) You load up your 4runner with armor, winch, bumpers, extra gear, and you're still putting your engine to work in a similar way that towing does. The 4runner's v6 is just not well-suited to high work load situations; it will get the job done, but there are other platforms that will get the job done even better (refer to my donkey analogy).
I would like to see another 4WD SUV that you can load up and see engine efficiency go up. If you take any other platform and add weight and mods the mileage will go down.
Well no one was arguing that an engine's efficiency can go up when under load...I'm not sure why you came up with that strawman argument.
There are other platforms that can tow and haul gear without seeing
as much of a hit in efficiency (the diesel Colorado would be the most direct comparison to the 4runner in that regard). Moreover, there are full-sized pickup trucks that get about the same, or better, fuel efficiency than the 4runner when loaded or unloaded (the ecoboost F-150 and the ecodiesel Ram 1500 are two examples).
Apples and Coconuts. What platforms are they offering them in? The Explorer has been soccer mom'ed to death. The F-150 is huge in comparison to the 4Runner and when you perform a base comparison it doesn't tow any more than the SR5. To get 7K towing you have to pay $7k - $10k more for a different engine such as the 4WD SuperCrew 6.5' Box XLT with a 5 liter. Otherwise you are stuck with their small 3.5L.
This is quite laughable what you're doing here.
Comparing a GM Colorado to a 4runner is "apples to coconuts?" I get that one is a pickup and one is a SUV, but we're talking about platforms with similar footprints, similar engine types, and which are bought by similar customers.
The F-150, with the 3.5l v6 ecoboost or v8, tows far more than the 4runner. Moreover, the version of the ecoboost that will eventually be put into the Ranger will likely far outpace the 4runner, and Tacoma, when it comes to fuel efficiency and torque delivery.
Honestly I'm sorry that you hate your 4Runner so much. You sound like someone trapped in a bad relationship. Just sell the 4R and buy the F150 or whatever it is that will make you happier.
This is what I find so annoying about the cult that is Toyota ownership: if you mention even one critique of the vehicle or the company, you're labeled a Toyota hater by the fanboys. I love Toyota and I love my 4runner, otherwise I wouldn't have bought one. The 4runner is reliable and rock solid in all regards, even the engine, despite its other faults.
The problem is Toyota is way too conservative and they're relying on engine/transmission setup's that have been around, in one form or another, since 2002. I get about 19-20 mpg in realistic highway driving with my mostly stock 4runner. F-150's can get 1-2 mpg better than that, despite their bigger size. Similar-sized Colorado's can get 10 mpg better.
Toyota's gasoline engines may get the job done, but they are not keeping up with the competition when it comes to efficiency or torque delivery, both of which have become increasingly important to new 4x4 owners.