To the OP, don't discount the fact that you are getting what I consider to be a far superior vehicle in every way, not just the 4x4 system.
I never had a Tahoe, but I am on my 4th GM truck. My husband is on his second. They normally sit in the driveway unless they are pulling a trailer, but I have had my fair share of issues despite the fact that I have not racked up the miles. The first one, a 1500 Silverado right out of college~transmission went as soon as I was over the warranty limit, the second one~shut itself off randomly, scaring the shit out of me. At speed. No one could solve that issue, and before I threw in the towel it refused to start at an endurance race 6 hours from our house. Finally it did, but I stopped using it. The shops we took it to never did figure out what was wrong with it. Before we traded it that transmission was also on its way out. Traded for a 2009 2500, which was trouble free, and currently have a 2009 3500 dually which is also trouble free. My husband had to have his 2007 2500's transmission replaced at 27k. Has had good luck with this truck. My husband won't consider Dodge, and we test drove a Ford that he hated. So that's that.
So that's 6 Silveradoes, 3 bad transmissions, and other issues that werent nearly as big a deal, but made me not trust them, or at least the ones we traded. No, the 4x4 systems did not go, but that makes little difference if everything falls to pieces around it. I would take the 4runner in a heartbeat over a Chevy, no pun intended. They are just solid.
My husband had to move the 4runner to plow the driveway the other night: called it a "snow buggy."