I know you are looking for a V8, but did you consider a Hyundai Santa Fe? My wife got a Limited over a year ago and I was skeptical but it was her vehicle, her choice. I was happy for her to get anything all wheel drive after having to deal with her crappy minivan in the snow. At any rate, I've actually been grudgingly impressed with it. It has three rows with captain chair walk through. Our kids are 8 and 10 and they fit with plenty of room in the third row for when the in-laws go with us. There have been no issues the first year. Great safety ratings as well. It's a crossover, but so are the Durangos now, so not a lot of difference there, in my opinion. Just something to consider.