dubstep isn't music. Its a lot of unorganized sounds that seems to be out to annoy people (like really "technical" jazz). This is coming from along time electronic music fan (and jazz fan).
I never really liked the trendy House music. But, I was really into Jungle-Drum n Bass and Gabber. So, you wouldn't think that dubstep would be too far of a stretch, but it really just makes me scratch my head.
I hear you kids listening to it in traffic sometimes and wonder, "how does that actually sound good to anyone?" Then again, I wonder the same thing anytime I hear someone listening to rap too...