A lot of your question is going to center around available funds and what order you want to do your mods in. I went with the lift the user below posted. I knew the whole time that it was a stepping stone to bigger and better things. I knew I would be taking it off within a few years and replacing it with Kings.
My line of reasoning is that shocks/springs make the truck ride better but do not make it perform much better. I wheel a lot and needed money to go towards tires, skids, sliders, front bumper/winch, rear bumper/swingout, lockers and gears. Those items are what makes a rig wheel better, prevents major damage, and allow self-recovery if needed.
When I do go to Kings I will remove my current lift and sell it to a forum member here. I figure I could get about 500 for it. That line of thinking is how I built my rig to where it is currently. If I had an extra 8000 laying around when I started my build I'd have done everything within a few weeks. I didn't so I found an approach and plan that worked well for me.
That lift does just fine on the trails. From a price/performance standpoint it is the best lift for 3rd gens IMO. Did you get different front springs with it? The Eibachs that come standard with that lift are a 620# spring rate.
When I put on my Relentless and 12K Engo winch I dropped about 1/2". Ride quality actually got better with the added weight for me. Once I put the rear on and bumped the back to 861's I was able to go to the second perch on the Taco billies t and bring the front back up an inch. The increased pre-load actually made the truck ride even better. lol
It's all about what your intended use is and how much cash you have on hand. Both of those can change during the course of a build but having a well thought out plan and executing will go a long way in keeping the costs down.
I would agree with you on the lift. For the price it’s not bad for us guys that DD the runner and do a little wheeling on the weekends.