Looking at the EWD it shows 60A ABS, 10A GAUGE, 10A ECU-IG, and 10A STOP. I'm assuming the 10A STOP and 10A GAUGE wouldn't be it so that just leaves 10A ECU-IG to try. Doesn't look like there is anything critical powered by that fuse.There should be a smaller fuse for the ABS computer, not the actuator that you can pull.
The only communication between the ECU and ABS system is the speedo signal (that goes through the cluster first). Not a two-way thing though.
-Charlie