I dig that you went back and got your headrest and visited the site of the accident.
And, it reminded me of a concept that has been kicking around in my head for a few weeks...
So I work a lot over the summer. I have crazy hours and one weekend I worked two, back-to-back 12 hour days. At that point, I think I was on week five of working every day with some 16 hour days peppered in there. One morning, I was leaving for work at 3:45 am. I forgot something inside and went back in quickly to grab it. I left for work to return 15 or so hours later. I was tired. I unlocked my door, stepped inside, dropped my bags to the ground and turned on the lights. Then it hit me... GAS. I could smell lots of gas!! I started to back out, and turned the lights off. Strike TWO! I realized stepping back outside that turning lights on and off could potentially cause a spark and chain of unfortunate events. I backed out, and called the gas company. They said that they'd send someone out. I went back into open up doors and windows. I passed through the kitchen hearing a loud HISS. I looked over and saw a burner had been set to high for like, 15 hours... ( I must have bumped it during the morning rush back inside.) Without thinking, I turned the unignited burner to off. Well, between HI and off, is "ignite". Strike three, still not dead.
Afterwords, it got my imagination going. I died the first time I hit the light switch. I was blown across the street into my neighbor's house and there was nothing left of my house but a crater. Everything after, was / is my imagination, the afterlife. I stopped being "Ryder" and now I am "Ghost Ryder". Still going to work though. Even though I am dead. I am highly functional. LOL.
Anyway. I am digging the steady progress. What do you see as your upcoming large hurdles to overcome as you proceed?