Okay,
sounds like we all have the same rmmm rmmm rmmm at about 70 to 75 mph. Yet, my last long drive had a lot of hills, and I noticed it as I was climbing them, but not descending, that I heard that familiar rythm. Then I noticed that it REALLY occurs when the engine rpms are between 2000 and 2500. someone wrote about this earlier but I cannot find the thread.
So I started to experiment: put the car in N reved engine to 2200 rpm, no rythmic noise. So then I slowed down for the next uphill. Put it in 3, started uphill, at 2100 rpm the rythm started (I was going much less than 70 mph). Going down the next hill, slowed down to about 50 put the car in D, got rpms up to 2200, there it was again, when I got to about 80 and the load on tfhe engine decreased, the noise fell off.
So, at least in my car, it does not really matter what speed you are going, or what gear you are in, if my tacometer is between 2000 and 2500 rpm, and the engine under lode (accelerating, keeping steady on flat ground, or going uphill), I get the rmmm rmmm rmmm rmmm....
I THINK the fact that everyone documents it at 70-75 mph is because that is their cruising speed on a fairly flat highway AND the the engine rpms are between 2000 and 2500 under those conditions (in D).
Don't know if this discussion will help anyone, but my 2 pennies worth.