Luxury ride on road and capability off road all for $1500? Good luck with that. You can't have everything, especially not on your budget. Any time you do a mod, especially the suspension, there's going to be sacrifice. A stiffer ride might be better for offroading but it might not be so good for the street.
The reason why there's no consensus #1 recommendation on lifts is because everyone's needs are different. You'll see recommendations anywhere from Toytec, Bilsteins, Fox, OME, Icons, Kings, Walker Evans, Sonoran, etc etc and everyone will say theirs is the best. Everyone has their own opinion which is why you asking people for the best suspension kit is kind of useless and not to mention been asked about a million times.
If you don't know what you want then how do you expect others to tell you what's best for you? If the "Lifted" thread has your head spinning then I suggest you spend some more time on here doing more reading/research and calling up Toytec or Wheelers offroad with questions.