I am not sure how long, in general, it takes for all the lights to come on. It does seem to have to with something while driving, though have not been able to determine if it's a particular speed.
When I start the truck and press the "trac off" button, the VSC off light comes on and will not cause the other lights to come on later on. It all seems to function correctly, meaning, the brakes don't kick in, but the skid light comes on when sliding and the power is cut.
I went off road like this yesterday and even after about an hour still no extra lights. But, when I turned it off (back to factory setting) within a few seconds all the lights came on and stayed on until I turned off the truck. I cannot get the extra lights to go off by just pressing the VSC off button. I have to shut the truck off, similar to unplugging the harness like some of mods have done.
I have noticed though that it still seems to be generating "pending codes" even with the VSC off button pushed. I have a scan gauge plugged into the OBD2 socket. There doesn't seem to be a difference whether I have pushed the button or not I still get the "pending codes", no actual codes though.