I have stock sized tires and lift. I personally think it looks rad. There is a lot of hype about the "need" for 285's. Don't get me wrong, I might upgrade myself for winter but personally I find there to be a lot of hype about lifted runners not looking good with 265's - I think they look awesome. One aspect of the aetsthetics of 265s I really like, is seeing coilover and rear shock so easily - it just looks cool to me. With my RADFLO you can actually see "radflo" on the rear shock.
Its funny how on these forms people seem to want to conform to some sort of standard...I think its important you do what you think looks rad. For example I think the ARB bumper looks sweet regardless of whatever the consesus is online.
People need to always bear in mind any change in tire entails compromise. Sure 285's will run smoother on big terrain, but they'll also net a loss in MPG, a loss in power (whether its percieved or not) and it will also increase wear on tear on almost everything. Its almost like a drug pusher who is on 285s and wants you to be on the same too...hahaha.
I have updated this reply with a few pictures of our rig. We will probably start a build thread soon.