Thanks for all the great tips. Delivery process was pretty low key. Finance guy was low pressure, although seemed deflated when I declined all the extras and extended warranty.
Sales guy was patient as I pulled out my checklist and went over everything - lifted the hood, checked the fluids, on the ground to check for KDSS, no dealer sticker, no drilled bumper, took a couple of pics before pulling out, checked fit and finish, spare tire, owner manuals, window sticker, etc., etc. His basic approach "Let's get you on the road as long as you don't have any questions." Really smooth and easy.
The whole dealer process with these guys was great. Internet manager aggressive on price without any games. When we went to look at the 4R last week, the saleswoman handed us the keys and told us to pull it around ourselves if we wanted to drive it so she could slap on the temp tag. Spent 20-30 minutes pulling it out of the line-up (parked with 18 other 4Rs) to compare against the other colors, getting in, getting out, sitting....she never bothered us. ...and then test drove without her. Irwin Toyota - Laconia, NH = highly recommend them.
Took it a local school parking lot down the street, parked, read the manual for 20 minutes.
Drove home. Read the manual some more (4WD, crawl, etc.). Tried out 4WD in 4L and H4 modes on our hilly, dirt driveway.
Great day!