So back to this thread the vehicle has been in the body shop for repairs and today they found something very interesting on the lower balljoints. These are Oem dealer purchased balljoints if they did not disassemble the tie rods at the bodyshop I never wou have guessed the driver side balljoints was the culprit.
Passenger side lbj...
Driver side lbj...
Look closer you see a difference?
The bore on the driver side lbj is bigger causing the tie rod to be over tightened down to the lbj so when I brake the tie rod is shifting and loose to the left tire pulls and the steering is everywhere. I am waiting for these to be replaced and test driven to verify but this would seem to be the culprit as the already broke one new tie rod today mounting it to the defective lbj. Fingers crossed I am ready to get my 4Runner back!