Sorry, folks, I've been a bit distracted looking at newer models. To answer some of the questions...
First, it has just under 100K miles and yes, it will be for sale very shortly (pm me if interested). It's in good to very good condition. KBB gave me an estimated private party sale of about $24K. Someone mentioned losing value. I paid ~35K, I think, in 2018ish with about 30K miles. So it's held value well.
Secondly, for the first time in my life, all 3 of my cars are free and clear and under 100K in miles. Two are about to cross that threshold. I don't need 3, so I think it's a good time to hit reset and get lower mileage cars again by reducing the numbers. Just bought a 22 Tacoma DCLB TRD OR on a whim. I don't like it, so it'll be the first to go.
Third, ours is well equipped, but I would like to get Apple Carplay and remote start. I'm a bit obsessive about tire pressures, so I'd like to be able to see those. That's about it other than clawing back about 70-80K miles, which is the top priority. People may joke about the heated steering wheel, but I had it on an e60 and it was pretty freaking nice. But it won't be a driver in this decision. I put the Bilstein AAL on the Tacoma and it came with TRD wheels, XP package, and Duratraks. I want to do the same thing to the new 4R. Sure, I could just upgrade the one that I have, but I don't want to do that with 100K miles on the clock.
So that's the thought process. Looking at your replies, it looks like it's a OR or ORP. The PRO just pushes the budget boundaries too much.