Congrats on the new baby Ed! I don't think we're quite ready to have another little one running around yet, but we're starting to gear up for it.
But don't feel bad. With building the house taking up all my time this year, I've neglected caring for my 4Runner and commissioned her as a construction vehicle. Now with the house "finished", I'm finally getting around to taking care of the truck. And it started with a trip through an automated car wash, but then I followed it up with a hand polishing. I don't have the time to spend all day caring for the truck, especially since I own 3 vehicles, so I have to pick my poison. If I want to hand wash, then that's about all I can do. If I want to wax or polish or do other detail work, I use the automated as a base to work from. Not ideal, but it does the job.
It's not like when we were young and single and could wash the car every Friday after work so that it'd be shiny for the weekend. Grown up problems...