I don't believe that EVERY tire shop does anything the same. To that end, I don't believe that every tech working in one given shop does it all the same. There are no absolutes. One option you've forgotten is torque specs based on lug size, to which torque sticks apply.
This is good in that it proves you are thinking about the problem realistically.
The unrealistic answer is that they actually bother to look up the torque spec for each and every vehicle that comes in.
The more realistic answer is that they use some kind of "rule of thumb", basing their torque on general parameters.
I agree with you on that.
I know that the shop I use inflated the tires purchased for one of my pickups recently to the pressure listed in the door jamb. They specifically mentioned this when the install was completed. YMMV, since there are no absolutes.
The problem with the pressure on the door jamb, as you well know, is that it only applies to the OEM tire (and probably a similar tire to the OEM tire).
Another problem is, for example, when the axles are different pressures (as are mine).
The more realistic answer is that they use some kind of "rule of thumb", basing their air pressure on general parameters.
I'm not sure that any of this has a thing to do with mounting/balancing at home as it's complete hyperbole.
I agree with you and you'll notice that I try to stay on topic, which is the topic of mounting and balancing such that this thread can serve as a useful reference to others in the future.
I'm doing two alloy wheel tire repairs today (if I get the vehicle in) for a friend so I will see if I can post some pictures. I expect the 60-series alloy wheels to be so simple as to not require many pictures, but I'll snap some for you so that people with alloy wheels will see that the tool doesn't damage them.
Overall, the major advice that I would give someone who asks the same question I asked a few days ago, is that it will be difficult, but not impossible, to change SUV tires, where the only hard part is breaking the initial inside bead.
The rest is, essentially, a piece of cake.
As for tools, my advice is just as simple.
Fact is, removing/installing the valve and weights is simple so almost any tool will work.
And, you buy a purpose-built bead breaker, and a purpose-built tire mounter/dismounter.
In addition, you *modify* the bead-breaking and tire-mounting contraptions before using them!
How to modify the HF Pittsburgh Bead Breaker, Harbor Freight item #92961:
a. The bead-breaker arms are too weak (and bend like a pretzel, so you strengthen them)
b. The clevis pins are far too sloppy (so you replace them with bolts)
c. The bead breaker arc is far too small (about 1/2 to 1/4 of what you need so you buy a standalone bead breaker)
d. The tire iron twists out of your hands (use a vise grip to prevent that)
e. The tire iron is too soft so it bends when used as a lever (use pipe as a lever instead)
f. The base *must* be bolted down for SUV tires which require turning force (use 3/8" anchors, female, 16TPI and 3/8" bolts as close to 2-3/4 inches long as you can get but never shorter, so they'll probably be 3" long so use a few washers or cut off 1/4 inch)
h. There is no protection for alloy wheels (you can easily fashion plastic protectors out of an empty jug of coolant)
How to modify the HF Pittsburgh Manual Tire Changer, Harbor Freight item #62317
a. The base is far too short for big tires (so extend the base any way you can)
b. The base has no attachment holes for securing to concrete or pallets
c. The lever action isn't all that powerful (but it's strong enough)
As for special tools, two pairs of vise grips are de rigueur (at least one that is six inch for the end of the red tire iron, and another that is smaller to stop the tire from slipping on the rim when mounting the last top bead).
The weights are the type for your wheel, and you need to stock at least 10 of each clip-on weight from 1/4 to 1 ounce, in 1/4 ounce increments (more variety of larger ones is better, of course up to about 2 or 3 ounces). For the stick on weights, probably 1/2 ounce and 1/4 ounce will do.
The hand tools required are at least one Harbor Freight 24-inch tire iron (it's especially useful due to its great shape) but you really don't need either the special weight pliers nor the special valve puller/installer tool. Nothing wrong with them - but - you have to store them and find them when you need them, and they're not really all that useful on their own for a job that you only do once a year or so. As long as you have a utility knife (to remove the old valve) and anything that you can grab that screws onto the valve threads, you can pull it through to install (some use just a nail stuck through the core hole from behind and pull with pliers).
Similar story with the weights, where a hammer & chisel removes them and a hammer & pliers installs them.
As for special "parts" and materials, you just need to measure the existing valve and buy 0.463" replacements of the same size, and dish detergent, water, and a valve stem removal tool of some sort for twisting out the Schrader valve cores.