Thanks, I think I'll try to match the bumper to the flares. I do want some accents matched to the wheels somewhere on there, maybe roof rack when I get it? Kind of a 'grey on top and bottom, black in the middle' thing?
I've had the tires balanced twice now, still not good. I'm going to have them put on a better machine where they can tell me for sure if a tire is bad (my suspicion..). I accidentally let it slip that the tires were retreads (they never noticed) and he was immediately like "Well, you just answered your own questions. There's your problem!" and walked away. Don't think I'm gonna get any more help from them...