Wow, what a moron, most of what she does not like about the 4Runner is what I DO like and why I bought one.
How about this: a person's perception of nose dive is subjective. It all depends on his driving history and to what level of nose dive he's accustomed.
If I had previously been driving a subaru wrx sti, or a mazdaspeed 3, the 4runner would seem to have considerable nose dive. However, I previously drove a ml320. The nose dive, as the previous poster metioned, is only noticeable under hard braking, to me at least. Compared to my buddy's f-150, it has zero nose dive under all circumstances.