its ok, i guess i just took it the wrong way. i was not trying to defend the lady. just speaking up where is perceived something necessary.
-typically the vast majority of us here are males, and its typically assumed that "you" are a male until something(say a post or picture) indicated that you are a female... now we all know typically males are bigger and stronger than females, so my reasoning for my post was, "why do we have to state what is already a given..." yeah most of use guy dont have issues with doing physical work, sure some have more brute strength than others ect, but when a woman states that yeah i dont have the brute power/strenght to do what is stated, then why the need for some guy to come along and be well ive never had that problem bla bla bla... it just seamed to me to be a little egotistical and male chauvinistic, thats all. typically the guys that i run into that say that kinda stuff and mean it are douche bags and are trying to compensate for lacking something somewhere -personal insecurities ect.
i just despise guys who make the rest of us look bad by stupid comments. i know i too am guilty of this, but when i do cross the line i expect to be called on it and will admit i was out of line. no harm no foul. carry on
to the OP, if blue tells you "pain is only weakness leaving the body" remind him you dont grunt like a guerrilla and were never abused for no reason :hungry::vader: