You can turn the adaptive (radar) cruise control off and have normal cruise control.
When in the cruise control, I had the radar reduced to it's lowest setting. It hunted even when there weren't cars in front. I never thought to shut it off adaptive cruise control completely to see if it made a difference.
For the life me, I can't figure out what data the ECU-trans ECU would be seeing to make them behave differently with respect to downshifts and torque converter unlock when cruise is and isn't engaged. Perhaps it's tied to the electronic throttle and how the ECU-trans ECU are asking to maintain speed, perhaps with more throttle aggressiveness. It doesn't matter, clearly Toyota won't fix it after 10+ years