Hey man. You're better off using the 302 front coils and setting the coil seat height appropriately on the 574 struts to get the 3" of lift, then you can adjust it back down or up if necessary. If you start with the longer 314's, you won't be able to get it below 3" of lift unless you add a lot of front weight.
And yes, the rear parts are correct.
Don't forget UCA's and a diff drop kit up front. This page here goes through each option: Dobinsons IMS Suspension Kit Toyota 4Runner 2010-21 | Exit Offroad
Hey Mike, I had one more question. If I wanted to lift the rear 2 inches would I still be ok with the 505 and 705s or do I have to order the 2" springs (325s)?