Being a new guy, how would you propose to tell someone anything? Serious question here. The question the OP posed is fairly unique and requires extensive cutting and even more extensive mods. It is not for the faint of heart. It is definitely not a "first mod" for someone to attempt. People who can do and have the ability to do this mod wouldn't ask a general question like "How do I fit 35's" they would ask "Now that I have done "X, Y and Z I am having a hard time figuring out how to shove "AA" over to give me a bit more clearance." This is why they said if you asked that question then this mod probably wasn't for the OP.
Back to the question: How do you tell a new guy here about tire fitment? About waxes? About roof racks, wheels, seat covers, headlights, etc. They have been asked and answered in a clear and concise manner dozens, if not hundreds of times. We have stickies. We have FAQ's that would answer almost every question. We tell people to search to no avail. Nobody reads the stickies even though it says to read the stickies and FAQ's first. How would be a better way? I would like to know what you think. When I was a new guy here there were not a lot of questions that were answered yet so my experience is quite different than yours.
Lastly, it seems that people who have only been here for a short time don't quite get the heavy joking and sarcasm that is the norm here. It is not a bunch of old guys who have cliques. There are many "newer" guys that figured it out pretty quickly (and fit right in) and many older guys who have never (and never will) figure out the joking and constant banter. That's OK.
You had enough gumption to come here and call people who have answered questions many times and spent a lot of energy helping others "A$$HOLES." So I pose the question: How could it be a better experience for the new guy?