That sucks! The cop should have tested his 'drink' on the hood, looks like a screwdriver to me! I really hope they take a look at the other car in the accident, see the other damages and realize either this person was a fault because of their history or they may be scamming people and keeping the insurance money.
I had my 1st damage the other week. Wife left the tailgate up, started pouring, I drove into the garage, literally. The air deflector was hit by the handle of the door, enough to put 2 big scratches but not enough to 'feel' in the 4R. The part I felt was when the garage door base made contact with the huge 4R chrome structure on the back. Broke all but one clip off the inside, but no damage to the gate or window. It could have been so much worse. My last SUV would ding when put in D with the gate open, the 4R does not, until you hit a few mph, which I was not doing. Also my last SUV was a bigger V8 so no mistake the gate was open, this thing is too quiet

Went to the dealership and ordered the big chrome piece, the 4R emblem, Toytoa Emblem, all clips and bolts, & gasket, came to about $250. Now just waiting on the touch up paint for the scratches on top. The door did not fair too well, has a nice sag across the front now when full up. I have to put a couple backing pieces on it now, or just replace it, but since I have 2 side by side I would have to do both, not sure I want to do that now.