Havent got any answers to my question. But after looking around the forums some more have come across another way to go on the lift.
4Runner
This way does not have as complete a lift as in parts wise. But claims to give a 2" lift. via Bj spacers and springs. with extended shocks.
The rought country kit I had mentioned before has all kinds of parts including springs and drop brackets.
There would be a couple hundred price difference between the 2 but I just did a side job and could afford either kit.
Someone please give me some input before I go into this blind!